If you are looking for some creative and unique Valentine’s Day Date Ideas then you’ve come to the right place! Say good-bye to cliche romantic dinners at your local steakhouse and check out this list of unique Valentine’s Date night ideas ranging from cost-effective to once in a lifetime romantic experiences!
BONUS: Since these are a little more unique than dinner and a movie, you probably won’t hit up as many crowds either *YAY*
Butttt if you are into movies, I got you covered with my Ultimate List Of Romantic Movies To Watch This Valentine’s Day: A Love Story For Everyone
Ultimate List Of Valentine’s Day Date Night Ideas
Go Skating.
Okay, so this is probably the most cliche on the list so let’s get it out of the way. People seriously forget about skating! Whether it’s roller skating, ice skating, or rollerblading, just get out there and have fun! Nothing screams romance like the cheesy music and video montage worthy cuteness.
Plan a horseback riding adventure.
Take a scenic train or boat ride.
Have a dessert night with a variety of sweet treats.
A Themed Dinner Night In.
Instead of just Netflix & chilling, bring the fantasy from your TV screen into your home with either a festive meal, decking out your apartment, playing dress up, or a sexy role play.
My dress is from Free People & Sold Out, but here are a few current faves (affiliate links):
Lini Babydoll | Be My Baby Maxi | Embroidered Mini
Take a scenic drive and explore a new town or area together.
A little “staycation” or “one tank” road trip is the perfect way to get away, without having to send a ton of money or take too much time off. Heck, even going on a new walking trail can be a breath of fresh air and great date!
Plan a road trip to visit a nearby landmark or destination.
Take a photography class and capture memories together.
Attend a live theater performance or a local play.
Check your local city calendar as many put on free entertainment for Valentine’s Day!
Enjoy a couples spa day with massages, facials, and relaxation.
Whether you book a couples massage at your favorite spa, or DIY your own, it’s a great way to get intimate!
Plan a visit to a nearby aquarium or zoo.
Go for a hot air balloon ride and take in breathtaking views.
Shout your love from high in the sky with a hot air balloon ride for an unforgettable valentine’s day date!
Recreate a favorite memory.
Go back to where you had your first date or your absolute favorite park where you first realized you “loved” the person. Take a little walk down memory lane to give you all the feels.
Take a dance class together and learn a new dance style.
Learning how your bodies move together can make the perfect intimate date night for Valentine’s day!
Explore a local farmers’ market and cook a meal with fresh ingredients.
Enjoy a sunset or sunrise hike for a breathtaking view.
Create a DIY photo booth at home with props for fun and memorable pictures.
Something we did one year and cherish looking back on! Especially now with kids running around!
Attend a wine and paint night or an art class together.
Have a movie marathon featuring your favorite films or romantic classics.
If you’re unsure of what to watch, we’ve rounded up the Ultimate List Of Romantic Movies To Watch This Valentine’s Day.
Plan a weekend getaway to a cozy bed and breakfast.
Go on a bike ride or rent bikes and explore a scenic trail.
Bust Out The Bucket List.
We all have those things we *dream* of doing some day. Bust out your bucket lists and look at what you guys could check off together on Valentine’s Day. Maybe renting a sports car for the day? Making the world’s largest pizza? Be in two places at once?
Visit a local museum or art gallery for a cultural experience.
Take a cooking class together and learn to make a new dish.
Plan a beach day with a picnic and relaxation by the water.
Have a technology-free night and focus on each other.
If you are looking to bond deeper, consider printing out these Questions For Couples To Reconnect and enjoy a slow night with deep conversation starters from funny one’s to spicy romantic ones to those that encourage emotional intimacy.
Plan a scavenger hunt with clues leading to special memories or gifts.
Explore a botanical garden or nature reserve.
Plan a game night with board games, card games, or video games.
Whether you are doing an adults only game night, or have kids running around this can make for a great Valentine’s Date night!
[RELATED] 21 Best Board Games For Toddlers + Preschoolers (Cooperative Games for 2 to 5 years old)
Take a pottery or ceramics class together.
Have a themed dinner night based on a favorite cuisine.
Choreograph a dance routine or make a music video.
Okay, so this is an old video I never thought I would post on the internet. We were prepping for a dance battle (this was not the final version) — I would suggest starting it at the 25-second mark:
Attend a live music concert or a local band performance.
Check out local restaurants and bars if there are no concerts in your area. Many hire live music to make Valentine’s Day extra special!
Create a custom playlist of your favorite songs and have a music night at home.
Go camping and enjoy a night under the stars.
Attend a comedy show for a night of laughter.
Have a fondue night with cheese and chocolate.
Visit a nearby farm or orchard for a day of fruit picking.
Bring your favorite rom-com scenes into reality.
To this day, one of my biggest wishes is to make the paintball scene from 10 Things I Hate About You a reality. I have no idea where you can do paintball like this, but I want to find it and do it!
Plan a karaoke night and sing your hearts out.
Attend a dance party or event in your local area.
Attend a sports game or watch a game together at home.
Set up a scavenger hunt.
Whether you theme it for your relationship milestones or based on romantic spots around your town, a scavenger hunt is always a good idea.
Explore a vintage or antique market for unique finds.
Attend a wine tasting event or visit a winery.
Create a time capsule together and bury it for future retrieval.
Set up a spa in the home.
Schedule masseuse’s to come over. Dim the lights, get some relaxing music playing and throw some essential oils in the diffuser. Top it all off with at home face masks, a bubble bath, and a special dessert.
You can always add to this list and make your own date night jar!
Have a picnic in a local park or botanical garden.
Take a scenic helicopter tour.
Have a bonfire with marshmallows and stargazing.
Nothing like curling up on a cool winter night than around a fire with some marshmallows! Bonus points if you can swing a beach bonfire!
Volunteer together for a cause you both care about.
Visit a chocolate factory for a sweet experience.
Plan a themed costume night and dress up together.
You can layer this one on top of any other date night and make it a sexy dress up/role play date to add some extra spice to your Valentine’s Day date night!
Have a rooftop or balcony dinner overlooking the city.
Have a DIY pizza-making night with various toppings.
What are some of your favorite creative date night ideas? Drop me a comment!
OR share your favorite valentine’s day memory!
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Originally published 5/16/19; Updated 2/14/25
